The CD’s

1.  The STORY


3.  The MUSIC

The grey sludge slurped out from under the moving tires as the late spring snow integrated the winter grunge.  Emma was driving home from school, having had another exhausting day with hard case students.  (Now 37, she was primed early in an occupation for which she had been hammered and molded since youth.)  She had stopped to grab groceries, calling her son to let him know that she would be later than usual.  She placed the phone next to her on the passenger seat.

The phone rang and though Emma seldom answered while driving, she thought it best with the weather and her lateness.  She was approaching a semaphore, a green glow through the spiking snow.  Reaching down, she picked it up believing Patrick might be calling.

The red Chevrolet saw the red too late.   It blurred into the neutral zone and met Emma, it’s metal caving her door.  She never heard a voice.  Patrick heard the crash.

Wind had traumatized traffic as the paramedics finally reached the hospital.  Emma was moved quickly to a room sequestered with readied triage doctors and nurses. Unconscious, she was aware of nothing.  The impact of the wreck had whipped her head sideways as the airbag grasped her body.  It had been 45 minutes since.

She was floating through a darkness… a brilliant light in the distance.  There was no pain.  Slowly…the sense of ambient warm liquid secured her.  No concept of time.  A pod of unknown dimensions.  Just being.  Shadows emerged in the gathering light, separated from one another.  She felt no movement, ascertained none; the first shadow came closer.

Her mother.

The emergency waiting room smelled like sweet bleach as Patrick slipped-dashed his way in.  He moved through the gathered people to the desk.  He was told that his wife was being cared for and that he would informed when they had ascertained anything. Running a hand through wet curly brown hair, he asked if they could just tell him if she was going to be alright, really.  The same answer echoed.

Susan had Emma in April, 1980.  A year later Emma would have been known as a ‘miracle on ice’ baby, ironic as hockey had been a divider between her and her parents. a platform for sullen demurring and active rebellion.

Susan had grown up in a family of girls.  She was the eldest.  The only son had died tragically and as with any child death, the family was shaken to the core.  Her father, whom she adored, died a few years later, bringing the sorrow blanket down once again.  Her mother remarried and the youngest daughter joined the four.  The theological presence for the family was the Catholic church.  The family’s foundation was in a small city south of the Cities on the Minnesota river, dominated by Federated Coop and Green Giant, the grain and vegetable kings of the times. Vivacious, athletic and stapled with empathy, she was received by all as adorably receptive.  An All American cheerleader rolled in beauty and warmth.  Emma was her third child, all black hair, dark eyes with tipped out ears.

The dark charcoal arrangement was smiling, with cocked head in her way of attention to the moment.  Emma just watched as the image ‘floated.’  She loved her mother, who had stood by her in all situations.  Even when the verbal fights lunged past spirited they hung to their deepness.

The image wizened.

The north wind heightened and sirens could be heard whining in distant corners of the city.  The snow became hard, sleet like.  Evening lumbered in, grey shifting black.  And in the sitting room,  Patrick waited.  Family were coming, but for now the loneliness of the unknown laid on his shoulders.  Entrants moved about with the sameness of the emergency room shuffle; the resigned, hopeful, tired, worried, scared and for some praying…a tightness of movement.  Patrick sat in a chair near the far corner as if to distance himself from the nightmare.  As he slowly moved his head vertically through his hands, a light blue smocked figure called out a name, his.  He stood quickly and moved. Together they went down the tunnel hallway and stopped half way.  As the situation began to unfold surrealism crept in with the dialog exchange.  The bright lights could not block the foreboding deep in Patrick’s gut.  Head trauma.  Coma. Unsure.  Taking pressure off brain.  ICU.

Dad sketched in

Another shape visualized. her father.  After Emma had been born that April, her father had a rebirth the following July.  A hard nosed former professional hockey player who had now committed his life to Christ.  Going from a position of worldly toughness he had accepted the mantle of Christian security and change.  His heart had been touched.  With the change, his past began to churn itself to be visibly challenged by this new love.

A mother wed seven times, living here, there; Father who had started another life and only really wanted to be part of his when he became “successful.”  He and his sisters had fended for themselves, placing their heads, those formative years, in a bedroom usually shared on pillows billowed in rubber.  He sometimes on the floor. A bag of chips served as supper at times.  His sisters had made early life choices that followed dead ends.  He found himself locked out of the bedroom to wait until it was less occupied.  They had little.  He lunged his way into sports which provided a set of ‘bumpers’ for him to reside between, supported by a small cadre of friends.  His marriage to Susan had been a strong underpinning for him, until his fulfillment to monogamy failed.  The years of drinking added to the craziness.  He was awash in guilt, remorse (where he had little before) and examples of living by the world’s standards.  His rebirth was divine.  The fleshing of it would hurt.  Not only did he need to understand where he came from and the barmy erratic life lived, he needed to understand and learn what he now was desiring to profess.

The confession of unfaithfulness blindsided his wife and though they truly began to live as one, she never dealt with the hurt deeply.  It clung, draped with anxiety in part. ( It took time for her to grip her past losses and shake anew… she did with her Savior’s grace.)  His baseline was knocked out and his immediate family began to watch a past life part.  As he did.  This while he maintained the family financially, physically and now spiritually.path to Jesus

With no family role models to learn from,  he tacked on his own.

His image seeped away.

Emma disliked hockey.  The sport took her father away for long stretches, serving him to be more the percussionist of the family, the underlining and reinforced beat…with the melody seemingly sparse.  It was not problematic totally on his whereabouts, she succumbed to the witness he loved ‘hockey people’ more.  As he embraced his new life, he had to face difficulties his past had planted as standard, learning and living his love for Christ and thus incorporating this new love with his stewardship for his family.  During Emma’s young life the shifting balance was unsettling.

That she loved them was not a question.  More a misunderstanding of loving.  She certainly learned early how to ‘play’ them, going full throttle when Dad was gone and let the nurturing Mom handle many of the tough situations she presented.

Emma began walking as her father tried to gain his footing with his accepted faith. Not only was he rebuilding his own base but also patching the tapestry of his wife’s broken spirit while training his children (he would later attempt to gain a foothold to constructively rebuild the fragmentary sections of a terribly splintered family of brothers, sisters, Mother, step Mother, step Father and Father.)   All of the elements of suburban drama unfolded and the years themselves developed stretch marks of new beginnings, changes, reversals…crashing of norms and acceptances following the desires of development.  When her father took up the mantle of ministry, he began once again to be gone at length, leaving her mother to care, comfort and discipline.

Emma’s young life caromed about and in its fecklessness she found certain acceptance, both in sports and as homecoming queen.   However she did present difficulties well beyond her older siblings paths.  She blazed her own.  Against the traffic.

Patrick was admitted to her room.  The machines were ‘up,’ drips hydrating and sedating. a mask facilitating breathing.  He had many questions but the Dr. would not be available again for a time if not the morrow.  He touched her arm, the skin warm and brushed her hair with his fingertips.  He prayed.

Thomas. her brother…the image with a small tight smile and laughing eyes.

He had been there during those sometimes turbulent times; consistent in his fair treatment of her, Thomas looked out for Emma as if he had consciously decided to protect, right or wrong, excepting he took to it naturally.  She felt safe with him home, perhaps too safe.  He delivered a deep love and truly took a hold in her life. In his presence she felt better about herself, as if he belied the demons from entering. When Thomas left for Dartmouth, Emma felt an overwhelming sadness.   His absence set forth a chain of events she had never considered… he held her close during those times.

He slipped on.

Patrick left the room and met some of the members of the family who had been able to get to the hospital.  He proceeded to call others to describe the situation and explained that visiting should wait.  It was late.  He felt suddenly very tired.  Jack and Jenny, their children, were in Grandma’s care, an embryonic embrace he was thankful for.  As the totality gripped him, the seemingly grasping of hope out of tempered surrounding, he felt his throat tightening.  Tears began to surface.   Nothing seemed real.   All there waited until visiting hours were over for any words that would be encouraging. The doctor came around eight that night, while the ‘family’ who were present were shifting about in a waiting room provided for them.  In a methodical, practiced voice, he explained what was known, what wasn’t and what the next few days might hold.  A brain injury, the affects undetermined other than swelling on the right side.  She was in a coma.  The pressure on the brain needed to be deflated before they could really center gate the situation.  There was no time frame that could be submitted for any arousal from the coma nor for understanding the situation in its entirety.  A broken little finger on her right hand was the extent of external bodily injuries.  He concluded that personal affects had been locked away, to include the jewelry Emma had been wearing…her wedding ring.  Patrick had not noticed. They left to silence.

Rachael sleeked near

Rachael…the beautiful, brilliant smile…the child her father embraced in her ability to placate inner turmoils.  She could only describe her relationship with Rachael as adolescent diluted hate.  They were so varying.  Yet Rachael had stood with her as the rest of the family when the world tipped south.  Her ‘being there’ was an expression of love Emma had not expected and after Jack’s birth, when most of the outside world dissipated and her family was left to defend and love, Rachael took her position and in love secured her duty.  They had grown closer.

She was gone.

Patrick needed to get home to his children.  He gave and received dulled hugs and took his leave, sloshing again in a world torn dark.  Everyone has been ‘shot.’  Those that can need to get behind the wheel and drive.  He needed to be the driver.  In numbness, he drove beseeching his Lord, and headed home.


Of the over 100 case studies Emma had done for her job, she reflected that her friend Angel’s family would top all in coarse human behavior.  She had moved from the city and together the two ‘rough and tumbled,’ pushing aside norms to frolic against absolutes.  Safe together. They walked the heights of abandoned barns, mucked in swamps up to their necks only to be saved by the other.   Broken bones and black eyes.  Angel helped Emma party.  They plunged to dark sin and held hands as innocent young girls.  They cried together.  She felt a sister of sameness and together pushed each other to craziness, fostered and festered to extremes.  Liquor became relevant and together they cauterized others seeking extreme pleasures.  Yet they formed a bond that was deep.  Later, after the thunderstorms and reawakening, Angel would exit prison and join a Bible study with Susan.  Let go and be loved. She let it be known that Emma was the only one who had been there…the one constant good in her life.  Angel had begun to rebuild.

She whisked away.

A little kaleidoscope of visages past, her people that were part of her main path.  Her mind did not focus on good, bad, indifferent.  She just saw.

Stevie’s outline slipped in focus

He had put on a full court press since youth.  Vivacious, handsome, living outside the box; his youthful friendly happiness and ‘anything goes’ veneered to Emma.  It became a substance fest relationship.  He was a ‘good’ kid and they were friends, on her half anyway.  When his parents divorced while he was in 9th grade, it shattered his understanding of family, blowing him away.  He became determined to be a self made man…and pushed hard the envelop of self serving, yet cloaked all in a mask of glittered happiness.  Later, his mother would declare that Stevie was so difficult that she did not understand why God gave him to her.  He noted.

With high school graduation, there came the opportunity to go the route of college as her sister and brother.  She would follow her brother by playing a collegiate sport  It was at college where she struck a wall of isolation never previously known.  At the foot of the wall was loneliness, an overwhelming blackness that smothered her even while she glided about in sports and dorm.  She was vulnerable.  Extremely so.

When Emma went away to school, he was the only consistent person, calling almost daily and coming to see her on weekends.  His superficial flattery competed hard on her loneliness.  It was when Emma became pregnant that he abandoned…she could not party anymore.  He never got past himself and slid more into alcohol, sex and drugs.

And so the pursuit ended in a situation neither desired, she because of her internal components knowing being pregnant was wrong and the absence of a future she could comprehend.  He not ready to be a father.  As Emma extracted herself from the life of parting and concentrated on her child, with the love and support of her parents, he dismissed her from his world.  She could not party like he desired.

Stevie never changed

When her son Jack was born, she took hold of herself, righted the ship and began to take classes at the school where her father had begun to help coach the hockey team. She gravitated to a strata of teaching and social benevolence.  The need was great in the public spectrum of education.

She graduated, working and raising her child.  The ‘family’ worked hard at bringing Stevie into Jack’s life.  However they found themselves swallowing despair and anger at his inability to grasp the situation of no Emma and being a father.  This process drained her.

Emma knew her son needed a father, so, with hope on her part they tried counseling, a Christian counselor.  She had pushed for them to seek counseling.  As always, Stevie silver tongued himself with generated sympathy, but he wanted really no part of a life that would tie him down, yet he still wanted Emma, he could not let go completely, partying or not.

It was the counselor who told Emma that Stevie was not the problem, but that it was her.  She needed to understand that HE was never going to change…she had to decide if that was what she and her son needed.  It was not.  The decision was still hard.  Even Stevie’s parents loved Emma, their son not.  Emma shoved away the manifested intent of an artificial father and Stevie fought back in his loud now uncultured desire to control her, while being controlled himself with his indulgences.

Patrick spent time with Jack and Jenny, holding them as needed and letting tears flow. After they were asleep, he sat in the living room in darkness.  Weariness clung like medieval  canopy stretched and tattered.  His toes felt tired.  The far wall became a screen.  A long distance stare.  Remembrance replaced vision.  Slowly his mind escaped to that day.  Up on the Kaduance River:

           Patrick had stolen one of her rings, so to pick the size for the engagement one.  Now, he suggested that they go up to the River and hike into the Falls.  Emma was grand for it.  The Spring day picked was delightful.  Emma was running late and Patrick was afraid that the day would escape the asking.  Once in route he felt better yet nervous.  He was at a 60/40 percentile that she would accept.  He understood her love, yet was she ready?  They made their way along the river’s trail, pants pulled thigh high, shin to knee deep, light to each other.  Emma gave him a splash once, but he just turned away…his hand was in the front pocket squeezing the ring tightly!  extra_large_97d7326bd909ad98137fa14611a6c403 (1)

They approached the Falls and found one couple there.  Thankfully they left and the Falls was Patrick’s stage.  They entered waist deep.  When the moment handed itself to him, he asked, finally releasing the ring from the pocket vault.  “Yeah!!”  An Emma response and total in her verbal embrace.  Patrick was relieved to have the ring out of his pocket!


He could see them, in the pool.  She had been so alive, so immersed in freedom to love.


The balm of healing, bringing a rebirth, in herself, her faith, and in love.  A big shaggy maned artist who presented himself the goal of being known.  He was good, to Emma and Jack and love developed.  He took her life beyond the hardness she had known.  He was a carefree soul, grounded in Christian faith, who loved music. Where music had eluded Emma of any significance or influence after her bout with heavy metal with the ‘wild bunch,’ Lonnie was a total music head.  Through their connection she was introduced to a kaleidoscope of music.  Lonnie would make many mixed CD’s for her to listen to…alt. music, funk, gear box rock and roll.  She began to take a better look at music in applications to her life.

But there existed a love with strings.   So new to Emma such feelings that she was not aware of them for a time. Lonnie was committed to his God, Jesus, and he salved Emma’s tarnished view.  But the carnal seemed to esteem too much.  His image. Lonnie craved a big time stage and yet still played the church bizarre.  His love of recognition layered a barrier that Emma was never sure how to rip.  As real as his Christian faith was so to his concern of image, self image.  He internally submitted to the greener grass, the next best opportunity.  Connectivity throttled him and his itinerant desire to be anti-culture.  Emma found herself a stage hand to the band. The ship sailed, with her standing on the dock.  Not enough room.  It hurt.  He had given her time to feel real but the commitment beyond self was not external.  She had taken another bullet.


James skated in.

The hockey world of her father’s opened up an avenue for Emma to feel some romance after Lonnie.  James, a hockey player who was coursed to play in Europe, came in and with his ‘capital’ being western Canada allowed her the opportunity to travel.  Far distances.  She spent a week that summer with him and his family in Alberta.  When he invited her to visit him in Europe for a week, she was excited to expand on her adventures while not sure of where or how the two of them would mesh.  She made proper arrangements with family and flew over.

They were in a small town where she knew nobody but James, spoke no foreign language and was alone most of day as he involved with hockey during day and game nights.  She had taken to running to quiet her unease and simple loneliness that kept creeping in.  She loved the trees, the running, the view settling.  She became friends with a ‘teammate’s wife who spoke broken English.  They communicated with an English/German dictionary as a bridge.  Emma was thankful for the time they could spend.  As she became disillusioned and isolation amped, she leaned on her new companion even more, but sporadically.   She felt a parting of her relationship with James, the contours becoming wider.  This brought tension and exasperation to be fueled by his passion and her’s lost.  They began to spar verbally. And given Emma’s emotive tension, a desperation.  She began to reflexively withdraw.  Her new friend could see the situation and she believed, as Emma, she needed to go home.

In the quietness of the suite, Emma looked in her suitcase and took out the CD presented to her by Patrick before she left, thinking at the time she would probably not listen.   In the case was a piece of paper with a list of songs handwritten.  cdShe looked at the song list.  A sudden compulsion to play it moved her to take her small player out and insert.  She hit play and layed back on the bed, emotionally exhausted.  Out came the melodies and moved quietly to ease over her, soothing.  After listening several times, she knew she had to go home.  Just go home.  Here with James was not good.  She did not think past that.

James was livid.  She felt bad, however she was choking on reality.  Emma had to get out.  Where did the excitement wean itself from the travel? Where did loneliness begin to creep its way in?  Where was she exactly? Geographically in Switzerland. Beautiful gorgeous Switzerland.  Excepting the glory of the scenery eluded her.  The pieces of a dramatic, exhaustively lonely past were pushing in.  What was she doing and where was she ‘going?’  The suite seemed small now.  With the smallness came a self hindered belittlement that she knew and hated. Tears welled.

Susan sent the ticket.

Before she left, she bought Patrick a tin…a tobacco tin.  She did not really know why.

James lifted away

Patrick could not sleep.  He went to the kitchen, pure habit, and poured a glass of milk. Rubbing his head, milk in hand, he stepped down to the family room where he kept all of the family’s CD’s.  Walking with the stair light glow silhouetting, he twisted a small lamp switch on.  He extracted a ‘Grateful Dead,’ sitting long legged on the floor, inserting it.  He listened a bit then pulled it.  Tried another, same.  He grabbed one of the boxes where he kept CD’s he had patched together over the years.  There were several boxes.  He slid a composite in.  While the music ‘spun,’ he tinkered through the various slide covers with dull numbness.  He started to concentrate on finding two…one made for Europe and one for their wedding.  He found the later and it played through the night.


He had grown up enveloped in music of tradition.  A fourth generation staid in manner and sensed in tradition, hymn constant.  The last name had been changed upon arrival in Camden N.J. from Isaackson, a name of a best dear friend.  The better to assimilate at a time when nationalities hung tight.  The move to Mpls. found the family firm in the plumbing and sewer business, practice and supply. They moved to the north side after robbers broke in, stepped over a sleeping Patrick in his crib and went about their business.  The north side of the river proved safer and the shop grew.

The playing fields for boys activities were the family’s back and front yards and the street.  Touch and tackle football, basketball, and wiffle ball, played with a tennis ball, using the townhouses across the street to act as home run bleachers; a suburban shadow of urban stick ball.  The participants were neighbors of all ages, if you wanted to play you were in, the rules and results always worked out. There were always enough.  Patrick was a sports nut as his best friend and older brother.

The house and garage showed all of the attributes of games played; garage door dinged and dented, ball splats and broken lights.  They set up an ‘rink’ for road hockey in the street (when ice was not available) and when so, they tested the thinness of early pond ice by skating on it.  The ‘electric glide’ of new ice too stimulating to ignore.  Off the familiar fields and onto the fields of organized sports he took up soccer and, ‘encouraged’ by his father, played basketball.  He presented these skills at a private school in Mpls, Minnehaha Academy.  The connection of the school was the conservative covenant church they attended.

He entered community college employing the seven year plan, sliding out with a degree in Art, to perhaps teach, or not.  No one was hiring.  He took a place with the family business which had moved to Maple Grove, MN.  Emma was his first girlfriend not named Gretchen, though two could not really be counted.  There was never a depth with any.  Emma and he were introduced by Emma’s high school friend Joanne who had a crush on Patrick but was not in the playing field for his heart.  Actually, no one was then.  Gracious, as she held him in high esteem, she settled Emma to think about going out with him, even though James was still on the board.  There were a few ‘group’ dates to acclimate, then they went to the State Fair alone.  His nature was settling and his honest comment that he thought he peed his pants when a burst of fire works caught them unaware whittled at her resolve. Presenting a gentleman, he held back from telling her about the chocolate dot on her cheek as he did not want to bring unwanted attention to the ‘mole.’   When he did, she laughed.  The mildness was genuine.  The humor sincere and played even.

James never came up nor discussed.  Emma told Patrick just a couple of days before she was to leave.  Damn if Patrick understood why Emma had gone out with him upon learning about James.  When she told him that she was going to Europe, he was beside himself.  His proclivity of making CD’s from various tracks enjoyed strummed to his consciousness.  He wanted to send her off with one.  He called and asked if he could see her.  Emma was nervous, so she brought Rachael with her.  She wanted some space, so that she could enjoy/understand the coming trip and her feelings about Jamie.  Patrick presented a ‘hinder.’  When Patrick saw Rachael, he ‘downed out’ but summed up the nerve to give her the CD.  He really had nothing to lose, as he registered it; if she did not want it she would throw the CD away.  It was a healthy way to stay away from rejection and Emma had the safety net in that she was dating someone else.  Down the line the music might lay some seeds, ground work, in a subliminal way.  The reality was that he probably had one shot (and there was Rachael in the car!!) and so a glint of desperation focused in as well.  He threw ‘deep,’ hoping she would catch it. There was no promise made.

It was a long night.  No calls came.  The early spring sun peeked, then slid behind dark layered clouds.  The air damp.  He was still on the floor.

They had such different tastes in music that the ones on the wedding were the only ones that they could agree on, even though concern of Grama Doris having a heart attack when she heard Mason Jennings sing about crossed legs was softly laughed about.   The European CD was all Patrick.  In retrospect when Emma had teased him about all the love songs on it, he had to agree, though he just meant to send her off with songs he truly liked and hoped she would also.  A dice roll off the brick wall.

Jenny came down sleepily, much earlier than Patrick thought.  She had heard the music.   He reached and cuddled her close.  She and Patrick had recently been listening to songs she liked.  They sat there for a few minutes.  She asked about her mom.  Patrick did what Dad’s do.  Comfort to reality.  Jenny looked at the player.  When Patrick said Mom was in a deep sleep, Jenny offered;  they could make a CD for Mom so she could listen while she slept.


Jack descended a little while later as the two were selecting Jenny songs.  He sat on the other side of Patrick and quietly listened.  When Jenny told him what was happening, he asked if he could include some of his songs.  The three of them began the process, interrupted only for a quick breakfast.  No school today, they were going to finish making the CD and go see Mom.  Nothing else mattered.  Patrick kept the phone ready for just a few incoming calls, otherwise all attention was on making the selections and keeping the children’s faith alive.

When it was completed, they cleaned up, the kitchen and themselves and headed to the hospital.  The clammy feeling of uncertainty embraced Patrick on the drive.  He kept mute. The children were worried but continued to fixate that all would be fine…Mom’s don’t die.  The drive was long.  They pulled into the parking area and sloshed toward the entry.  Jack carried the CD player, Jenny the CD.  Patrick carried them both in silent prayer.

For his children:

The children held tight to the doorway of the room.  Blue clad nurses were in attendance. Patrick slid to a corner, taking Jenny’s hand.  Jack stayed attached to the door.  He felt an ethereal unease.  Suddenly to him the magnitude became present, real.  As the last nurse was finishing, Patrick asked if they could play some music for Emma.  Of course.  When they were alone, he moved to the side of the bed and asked Jack to bring the recorder.   He placed it on the bed table and Jenny took the CD out of a little handbag.  The volume was adjusted and the children stood watching.  With the suggestion that they stand on either side, Jack went to the far one.  Both postures ridged.  Patrick began to say something, but he found his throat constricted, again.  Jenny lifted her hand and took her mom’s finger.  Jack reached down and touched the other.

Jack and Jenny

Out lined in synchronized vibrations

These images were different, sonic toned visages.  Her children.  Time seemed to enter the domain.  Time past and present.  Jack, the handsome strapping boy she had held tight during those early years, filtering the ugliness Stevie torched them in. Grandma Susan and Grandpa John to build him during the trials as well as unconditionally secure him.  Oh, Jack, my son…

The image began to have features.  As did Jenny.  Cute as a kitten, curly brown hair DNA’d from Patrick, she was a joy.  A present to her and Patrick’s love, especially when miscarriages prevented others, one severe.

Stay Jenny, please………Jack………….

The music.  She heard music now not just felt vibrations.  Consciousness.  Real… Familiar…What… Where?  She felt presence near.  Melodious currents.  The essence of time now committed to her, began the small transition, formulating toward recognition.  A pressure on her finger.  Her finger.  Emma tried to ‘feel’ the pressure back.  The music came a little clearer.  An ambiance of the known!  YES!  They were THERE!!  I am HERE!  Oh she wanted to respond.  Where was her body?  She was HERE!!

They stayed for a time.  Thomas came.  He touched Emma’s arm and kissed her forehead. He was going to take the kids home for a bit.  Patrick needed to stay and hear from the doctors.  They left.  Patrick sat down by the bed, now placing his hand on hers.  He turned to stop the music, but decided not to.  He waited.

PATRICK…PATRICK….. HERE I AM.  She knew his touch.

John and Susan came soon after.  He had taken the red-eye home from St. Louis arriving an hour earlier.  Together, they got to the hospital as Thomas and the kids were leaving. Instinctively Jack and Jenny went to their ‘comfort.’  John took them aside and prayed. Earnest, no frills, a wounded heart prayer but cushioned for young ears.  Thomas and the kids departed and the two, hand in hand searched out the room.  They entered to see their son in law and daughter.  Embracing, Patrick gave them what information he had.   Susan whispered some questions.  John just looked at his daughter.  A million and one thoughts surging through his brain.

The doctor came.  Details were still sketchy as to a damage assessment.  They thought it might be best to induce the comma longer to accelerate the decompression.  The hospital staff was now coming in waves for the morning ‘tune-up.’  The three stood out of the way until the all clear visualized.  Then Patrick let Emma’s mother and father take the positions vacated by his children.

John brushed her cheek with the back of his fingers, ever so lightly.  He then sat and layed his hand on hers.  Susan gently put one hand under and one over Emma’s left hand, silent in her thoughts and both in their prayers.  Patrick leaned against the wall and looked on.

Emma felt the pressure.  A thought of existence and acknowledgment jumped.  I am HEE……

REEEE!  She pushed down with her left hand.  Susan felt it, looking quickly up… trying to process the happening.  She looked at John’s bowed head, then back at Emma.  Patrick watched her confusion, slowly pushing himself away from the wall.

Yes.. Yes.. Yes, I am here.  She pushed again with her left hand.  Now the reality was seeping to Susan.  She looked at Patrick, her eyes glistened.  Patrick left the room immediately to gather any medical staff available.

It was like pulling open rusted hinges.  Emma flicked once.  Subtly, the left eyelid grazed open.  A blur of gray hair speckled with black formed.  It began as a shimmer then progressed in articulation.  She looked as her right eye began to open as well.  Susan stood maintaining her touch.  John now looked at Emma’s face.  His dark eyes matched hers.  He looked deep.

Dad!  Dad!  She could not speak, but a tear welled in her eye.  She was cognizant.  She knew.  Her dad.  Now her mom!  Yes, Mom!

Patrick was back with three nurses and they all looked on.

Her Patrick.  Oh, such a love….

The music kept playing.

2.  The wedding

It was a grand day that Spring afternoon when they exchanged vows.  Inclusive of families and friends excitedly congressed at the national landmark church, !st Baptist of St.Paul.  Huge wooden doors.  No flowers were allowed because of the historically designation, but none were needed.  The ‘flower’ came down the aisle with her father, a covered lace dress, sleeveless, with a short train.  A cathedral veil adorned her head.  She carried Calla lilies in her bouquet.  Her smile wide.  In front, he waited in a dark blue suite, his brown hair shortened and down.

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It was cathartic for many who had been directly or indirectly purposed to the journey. Brothers, sisters, in-laws formed the wedding party.


The wood framed pews, sectioned as in old days creaked in unison.  As the Groom waited alter top,  The Bride and her father walked to meet him.  Beauty shone and the great equalizer, love, adorned.  The love shared sprouted to the underpinning of truth, as love is what commits to right.  Out came the loves for all there, the life times of realities smothered in those moments by two who were committing themselves to each other.  All who were there loved.  It could not be shaken.  It was too deep.  It sharpness enthralled.

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He had purposed her, loving the ‘spit’ and spirit, broken by her beauty.  She took time to come to him.  He was so different, his kindness suffocated her as she felt undeserving. Mercy and Grace. the sheer love of God was hard for her to embrace.  It took real time. And him.  Life had sucked so much energy past.  He was the book of Hosea to her, God’s unlimbered full love.  She had hesitated for she believed he was above her.  Her self esteem derailed.  Then one day, in a car, by herself, she ‘heard,’ she knew.  TRUST ME. JUST TRUST ME.

His compassion followed along on her questions, never loud, overwhelming or selfish. His components were to deal with the questions, the conflicts, the hurts with a salve of how he could make the situation different, compatible to understand.  He showed Christ’s love.

The Union Depot served as the reception.  On each table, there was a CD for their guests. Songs they chose to share.  There, the happiness overflowed.  Greek food served and a dance floor to ‘shine.’

His family could sing but hers could dance.

 3.  The MUSIC

We all have music heritage.  Brought upon us early then selected in age.   She attended a John Denver concert with her mother when she was nine, staying at a motel downtown. The concert was fine, but it was more the get away that she enjoyed.  When she ‘aggravated’ to the heavy metal it was more circumstantial than enjoyment.  She just did not adhere to music.  Never considered the ‘metal’ an escape.  Just something the group listened to.

Lonnie introduced her to the ability of music to inspect one’s soul.  He made all sorts of mixed tapes from funk to alternate country, christian soul and rock and roll.  “Black Crows,” Sly and the family Stone,” and “Janis Joplin” began to have meaning.

She took that background with her as they separated and she sought firm ground again, so when he gave her the CD for the ride to Europe, she was not really shocked.   But then again she did not really expect to do anything about it.  Yet it was that CD that shook her.

He had a much richer course of music travel.  When he went back and forth to Minnehaha Academy, that 45 minute ride one way each day, he listened to music.  He had grown up on traditional, with his father being a very pleasant singer, but the commute began his transition of sorts.  His older brother introduced him to grunge and he purchased many of that genre.  His parents, unlike hers, never tried to part him of his choices, so such as the Grateful Dead became a staple.

When he began community college, his choices began to surge.  Surrounded now by many of the arts, he was introduced to many sources and types.  His artistic tastes took off.  He and a buddy liked to listen to music that others did not like.  He had begun making his own CD’s in high school and now he immersed himself in making wider choices and varied scopes.  He would listen to them while working on his college arts programs.  It was during this stage of life that lyrics became more important than the cover music.  One of his highlights was going to a Bruce Springsteen concert where it was inclusive, with strict ground rules that were implemented for such a venue.  A very small gathering.

He loved making his own mixes.

Together they really had an eclectic foundation, where she liked Prince, he did not.  But being who he was, he would concentrate on the aspect of a performer that merited attention.  Prince could play the guitar.

The wedding CD was put together with some songs off the Europe CD and a few others they both could agree on!  He was a little concerned Grama Doris would find the first song off color, but he should not have fretted.

Grama remembered crossing her legs on a hot summer day, windows down and catching Grpa’s eye looking.  Nothing changes under the sun.



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